Life ain't a bed of roses
Monday, July 25, 2005
♥ 08:02
Life ain't a bed of roses. We gain some and we lose some. This is a fact of life, no one change it.
To Shirin: I know that this is a very difficult time for you. I've been through it myself. Yupx...cry won't change matters. You have the opportunity to show him how you can live your life without him. Don't cling on to the fact that one day you might get back together with him. It will engulf you and you will soon realise that you live for that hope alone. Nothing else would then matter in your life. Don't make the mistakes I made. Cherish the memories you have and be thankful for them.
I can't help it but think back on how silly I had been waiting all 1 and half years for a guy that seemed to have moved on in life without thinking twice. God knows what is best for us, even if it means taking the guy that we love so much. No one will ever forget their first love, it will always be hidden somewhere in the deepest corner of our hearts.No matter how much we know that fact, we tend to hate God for giving us a shortlived relationship when we always hope for a long term one. But can we change that fact? No, but we can live to be a better person.
It's just like what my best pals said. You don't have to look for the perfect guy for you. When you see him, you would know. It's just like the analogy of shopping for lingerie at the pasir malam. You don't have to continually dig for the perfect inner wear to suit you but it'll be on the top of the pile shouting at you to grab it. It's the same for guys. God will provide. It just so happens that in a moment of folly, we think that the guy we like is the one that God sent to us. Be strong. We don't need guys to survive.
But I would have to say this. To the one that broke jacky and shirin up, sometimes it would be best that we keep our mouths shut when it comes to other people's relationship problems because it would cause an adversed action that would result it people getting hurt. If you want to be there for the person, just listen and not comment. It helps. Because now, you have become the enemy!
Guys, never do things on an impulse. It will really cause someone to be hurt at the end of the day. Girls hate the feeling of being hurt. We don't bounce back as fast as you guys would.
Life ain't a bed of roses. Let's just face up to the facts of reality and live our lives strong. Without all these obstacles in life, we would lead really boring lives. So let's just be thankful for having problems that would help us grow into better people. =)
